When I become a mother/father (what kind of a parent I will be)

When I become a mother, what kind of a parent I will be? I think that this is a difficult for us at this age. We are only twenty years old, it is quite far away from getting marriage. But I think that we can also try to have some idea or thoughts for being a parent of a child.

First, I think that the most important thing is to give freedom to children. Grow up happily, having a wonderful and nice childhood is really important. It is because childhood is good or not will affect the growth of children, so I think I will give many freedoms to my children. However, it doesn’t mean that I don’t care about their life or just give all the things they want. I will choose to let them do what they want, except for some bad things or will affect their school work. Sometimes, relaxing and playing is really important for children.

Second, I think that we should also be a straight parent sometimes, but now helicopter parents. It is because we just being soft to our children. When they do some bad things or being wrong, it is not good that we don’t angry with them. I think we should clearly and straight to talk to them and tell them they are wrong. And then, teach then the right things that they need to do.

Therefore, I think that being a parent will be very tired, we cannot be too straight and too soft. And we have to let them grow happily and have a nice childhood.